The gentleman's calling card harks back to the courteous, refined, well-mannered era of the 19th and early 20th century and was a tool to aid social interactions at the time. Unlike business cards which tell people what you do, calling cards tell people who you are. It is a more personal, intimate and authentic way to brand ...
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be critical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.
~ Max Ehrmann 1927
This was a random thought that came to mind during a conversation with an INFP friend. Are we made up of two consciousnesses rather than just the one? The idea originated during a discussion on food, and in particular our constant mental battle against it. i.e. the symbolic devil/angel on each shoulder - one prompting you ...
By Brandon Grubb... What’s A Friend? I’ve never been one to carelessly use the word “friend.” If I call someone a friend, I can assure you it transcends mere acquaintance or occasional conversation. This was an aspect of my personality I acknowledged long before I understood psychological things about myself that I am aware these days. It ...
IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
‘ Or walk with Kings – nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man, my son!
~ Rudyard Kipling
It’s been a minute since I last wrote, and I’m feeling the void, so here we go. Since I don’t necessarily have an angle or reason to write, just the desire, why don’t we just make this piece about why I haven’t written an article since about November? While it is in my nature to ...
Following on from the 10 Contradictory Traits of the INFJ Male post, I wanted to explore some of those traits further (along with a few others) and how they seem to affect/influence me in both life and work. Whether they are true to other INFJs I don’t know, but I would be interested to see ...
Intro To Introverts. There are a few aspects of my personality that I am very fond of. I wouldn’t say proud, because I am not of the mind that anything about me makes me better than anybody else. Just different differences with different people. The first, and one that most often comes to mind when I ...